Match.com sez “San Jose is not a city of flings.”
San Jose ranks #1 in the Bay Area for Serious Singles looking for long-term relationships.
Across the nation, it ranks #4 in the top 10 cities with the most Serious Daters and #1 on the list of “singles looking for love.”
Even Mother Teresa says ” Love is a fruit in season at all times.”
Looking for love in all the wrong places…yoga, knitting classes, painting classes – are great places to meet women. Men, not so much.
Yeah, men love Beer, Brews, Pubs…Do you want to meet in brew pub?
Try Singles Hiking, Golf, Wine Tasting Events, Rock Climbing classes, Cycling events, Coed Sports teams…
If you are going to dabble online: Have a good friend assist with photos, you unique screen name and all the “copy” you have to provide to attract a mate.
Hot Tips: Get off the couch and out of the house. Don’t waste time on a dead-end relationship.
Notice the red flags and move on. Whoever asks, pays.
So Many Books, So Little Time
Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man has shards of wisdom scattered throughout. Stroll down the aisles of your library and pick up three or four dating books. (Dating for Dummies is really a treasure trove.)
As is, the classic : He is Just Not That Into You
The best selling dating how-to-book, The Rules: Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right is a lark and a laugh and is peppered with some pretty good ideas for dating at 50.
Don’t waste time on a dead-end relationship. Notice the red flags and move on.